Engagement Party Attire

Dear She She,

I recently got an invitation to an engagement party that listed "fabulous attire" as the dress code. What does this mean?

Dearest Girl,

This is obviously a very festive and exciting occasion, and your hosts wish for you to share in their excitement and joy, thus the request for fabulous attire. This is definitely the occasion for a gorgeous cocktail dress, preferably one that hits just above the knee or at the knee, but not to the floor (save that for the black-tie affairs). Stay away from anything white - that is the bride's prerogative from the minute that engagement ring slides onto her finger until the last handful of rice has been thrown. Cream, ecru or a creamy gold are great spring choices. Also, since wearing black is no longer seen as disrespectful, or "mourning" attire, a really great LBD would be perfectly appropriate.

This season there are so many gorgeous gowns in fabulous colors and fabrics, I would opt for something cheerful and festive. It's OK to show a little skin, just not too much! Think more along the lines of elegant and sophisticated, not cheap and skanky. Perhaps an elegant halter-neck gown with a full skirt for dancing. Or a classicly simple sheath.

As for footwear, I would go with sexy skyscrapers. Nothing makes a girl feel more feminine and alluring than a great pair of heels. If there is going to be dancing, I would opt for a shoe with a little more substantial heel (perhaps even an elegant wedge), or a mid-heel stiletto. Finish with a great little handbag, and a perhaps a sleek bangle at the wrist and a bit of bling at the lobes.

Have a fabulous time darling!